Families of chronically mentally ill people: siblings speak to social workers

Twenty siblings of chronically mentally ill people discussed their emotional responses to the mental illness of their brother or sister. The findings were drawn from a study that was part of the author's practice experience as a social worker in a community mental health setting. The findings also paralleled the author's life experiences as a sibling of a chronically mentally ill person. Sibling emotional responses were categorized into grief and loss phases of denial, anger, bargaining, depression, relief/respite, and acceptance. Siblings believed that their expressions of grief and loss were impaired by characteristics of mental illness and by mixed messages from the mental health system. The siblings recommended inclusion of siblings in client treatment; support and education for siblings; clear communication between social worker and family; a social worker focus on family strengths; and, most of all, effective client intervention. The sibling perspective points out the salient need for social workers to use their ecological, person-in-environment training to facilitate healthier family support networks for chronically mentally ill people.