Listening to Silence

SUMMARY. I have examined the function of silence - its possible role and meanings - in the psychoanalytic encounter. I have argued that silence is complementary to words in general, and to analytic free-associations in particular, and that silence in the patient is often more than just the expression of his resistance.
It could be useful to consider the silent space within a session as a sort of container of words -words that, for complex, over-determined, unconscious reasons cannot be uttered. I have insisted on the significance of analytic silences and warned against responding to them either through a retaliatory silence or through a flood of premature interpretations. These inadequate reactions often stem from the analyst's own anxiety evoked in him by the patient's silence.
Anxiety and silence are closely connected. Each silence is a compromise formation, concealing the unconscious fantasy from which it originates, while expressing a conscious one, often related to the transference situation. It is the task of the analyst to listen to his patient's silences in order to help him understand their meanings.