家长应该怎样应对孩子的自慰

一天,有位母亲给“青春热线”打来咨询电话,焦急地说：“怎么办？怎么办呢？我的儿子有自慰行为。” 我安慰他说：“不要着急,慢慢说好吗？怎么称呼你呢？”     

孩子越大，越烦心

女儿上小学六年级,身高已超过1．60米,身体发育明显加快,开始出现青春期特征,原来唧唧喳喳、口无遮拦,现在变安分多了,人也文静了。偶尔撞见她托着腮帮子在发呆,让我想起《少年维特之烦恼》,尽管知道这是成长过程中的正常现象,心里还是不免惴惴的：冬瓜虽大还是菜呢,在我们大人眼里,     

与儿子谈“性”

儿子今年12岁。就在他渐渐摆脱童稚的时候，我发现儿子开始遗精，并时有手淫的行为。面对青春发育中的儿子，我这个当医生的母亲一时竞不知如何是好，想跟儿子谈谈，却不知该怎样开口。这时，某健康杂志上的一篇文章使我茅塞顿开。     

怎样与青春期的孩子谈性？

“我儿子今年上初一，平时这孩子活泼好动，吃完晚饭总是喜欢往外跑。可是那段时间我觉得这孩子不太对劲，他总是一个人偷偷地躲在量子里，门还反锁着。我有些担心，还问他是不是不舒服，可是儿子很不耐烦地告诉我他没事。     

7岁孩子“自慰”妈妈慌了

车老师：我是一个七岁小孩的母亲。最近,我在网上看到一位小学老师说,她班上一位小学生上课时有“自慰”行为,并对他的动作进行了描述。我看了非常震惊,因为我的女儿在家里也曾出现过类似行为。我一直不愿意相信是“自慰”。     

和儿子谈“早恋”

儿子的身高如同雨后的春笋,窜出了一大截.小小男子汉的特征也原来越明显,毛绒绒的小胡子冒出来了,声音也变得粗闷起来.他越来越想拥有自己独立的空间,再也不是那个赖在我床上不走的臭小子了,再也不是围着我转来转去的臭小子了.望着比自己高一截的儿子,除了有为人母的欣喜,更有一种责任感.但愿儿子能安全快乐的度过青春期,健康快乐地成长.     

遭遇儿子早恋

“孩子早恋是许多家长最怕发生的事情。处理不好。不仅会耽误孩子的学业，还会给孩子的心理留下阴影。因此。如何带领孩子走出美丽的错误．已成为家长们必须面对的问题，日前，一位遭遇孩子早恋的母亲。向我们讲述了自己的经历，希望她的处理方式能给更多的父母带来启示。[编者按]     

女人自慰无罪

男人手淫,自古有之,合情合理,无可非议。然而,女人自慰呢？你想到了什么？禁忌、罪恶,还是不道德？     

与儿子体验异国性教育

隔着浩翰的太平洋,中美两国在对青少年性教育的观念和方式上有着天壤之别。詹清女士在纽约生活期间,亲历了美国性文化对她的种种因扰。她曾担心正值青春期的儿子在异国的性文化中迷失方向。不过,她最终发现,儿子入乡随俗,潜移默化,以一种自然平和的心态理解和了解了"性",她原来的忧虑被证明是杞人忧天。     

我的猫我的" 儿子"

“儿子”有11斤重，抱在手上有点沉．所以我现在不太抱着它出去玩，它小的时候．我经常用装鸡蛋的筐拎着它出去逛街，好多人都夸它长得漂亮。     

Masturbation in Urban China

This study examined the prevalence and sources of masturbatory practice in a nationally representative sample from China completed in the year 2000, with analysis of sources focused on 2,828 urban respondents aged 20–59. In this subpopulation, 13% (95% CI, 10–18) of women and 35% (CI, 26–44) of men reported any masturbation in the preceding year. Prevalence for people in their 20s was higher, and closer to US and European levels, especially for men. Particularly for women, masturbation not only compensated for absent partners but also complemented the high sexual interests of a subset of participants. For both women and men, practicing masturbation appeared to be a two-step process. In the first step, events such as sexual contact in childhood, early puberty, and early sex were related to sexualization and the “gateway event” of adolescent masturbation. In the second step, other factors, such as liberal sexual values and sexual knowledge, further increased the current probability of masturbation. Overall, the results suggest that masturbation is readily adopted even at more modest levels of economic and social development, that masturbation is often more than simply compensatory behavior for regular partnered sex, that masturbatory patterns are heavily influenced by early sexualization, and that a complex model is needed to comprehend masturbatory practice, particularly for women.     

How I Helped Create A Flawed Mental Health System That's Failed Millions--And My Son

A former state legislator experiences firsthand the devastating consequences of past policy mistakes-and imagines what he'd do differently now.     

Masturbation in the United States

Using data from the nationally representative National Health and Social Life Survey, this study queried the correlates of masturbation in the United States in 1992. Among those aged 18-60, 38% (CI, 35-41) of women and 61% (CI, 57-65) of men reported any masturbation over the preceding year. The system of factors underlying masturbation was similar for both genders, consistent with a convergence in gender patterns of sexual expression in the United States. Among both women and men, masturbation responded to a stable sexualized personality pattern, catalyzed by early-life factors and manifested in current sexual traits. Strikingly, the masturbation-partnered sex linkage, often conceptualized either as compensating for unsatisfying sex or complementing a satisfactory sex life, appeared to be bimodal for both genders. For some, masturbation complemented an active and pleasurable sex life, while among others, it compensated for a lack of partnered sex or satisfaction in sex.     

Compulsive Masturbation and Chronic Penile Lymphedema

Chronic penile lymphedema arises from the abnormal retention of lymphatic fluid in the subcutaneous tissues and may be secondary to local and systemic medical conditions such as sexually transmitted diseases, filariasis, malignancy, local radiotherapy, and surgery. This case report aims to consider compulsive masturbation as a possible cause of chronic penile edema. A 40-year-old man was referred to our institute for behavioral disturbance, including compulsive masturbation. Neuropsychiatric evaluation showed moderate mental retardation, mild dysarthria and limb incoordination, anxiety, depressed mood, and impulse dyscontrol. Brain MRI pointed out diffuse white matter lesions. Urogenital examination revealed an uncircumcised penis with non-tender edema of the shaft and prepuce with areas of lichenification. Since the most common local and systemic causes of edema were excluded, chronic penile edema due to compulsive masturbation was diagnosed and the compulsive behavior treated with an antidepressant and low-dose neuroleptics. Compulsive masturbation should be taken into account when counselling patients with penile edema.     

Masturbation and sexual fantasies in married couples

This article reports some aspects of sociosexual behavior, as a small part of an intensive study of 38 married couples. The persons' experiences and formulations are the primary material in an effort to humanize sexological research. This article reflects the Danish psychological-psychiatric tradition with emphasis on personal interviews instead of questionnaires, inventories, or tests. The analyses are based on differences between husband and wife and between men and women as groups. A number of qualitative thematic differences in personal experience with respect to masturbation and sexual fantasies are reported. Attention is drawn to thematic differences in the psychological significance of these aspects of sexuality which are, in part, dependent on the sex of the subject.This research was supported by Grants 512-786, 512-1060, and 512-2901 from the Danish Medical Research Council.