中国大学生完美主义心理与爱情观的关系

目的探究当代大学生完美主义和爱情观两种普遍心理的关系。方法采用自编的中国大学生完美主义量表和爱情观量表对3000名在校大学生进行调查。结果（1）当代大学生在完美主义心理的自省、高标准、担心错误、条理性、父母要求、完美期待维度，爱情观的激情型、游戏型、朋友型、依恋型、理智型、奉献型、缘分型、矛盾型维度上都存在显著的性别、年级和独生与否的差异。（2）根据爱情观各维度的定位创构了独特的“爱情蝴蝶图”：理智型和朋友型构成主（身）体部分；激情型和依恋型构成蝴蝶的左两翼，促使爱情向“合”的方向发展；矛盾型和游戏型构成爱情蝴蝶的右两翼，促使爱情向“离”的方向发展；奉献型和缘分型构成蝴蝶的两须，决定着对爱情的物质和情感的投注。（3）完美主义心理的各维度对爱情观有着显著的预测效用。结论大学生的完美主义心理与爱情观之间存在密切关系。

The Relationship between Perfectionism and Love Attitude of Chinese University Students

Objective To explore the relationship between the perfectionism and the love attitude of the university students. Methods Three thousand university students were under investigation using the self-made perfectionism scales and the love attitude scales. Results According to investigation on the perfectionism and love attitude of the students, significant differences were found in terms of gender, grade and the only child or not. The unique love butterfly diagram was established by the university students＇ love attitude. The butterfly body was made up of reason style and friend style. The left two wings were passion style and attaching style, which promoted the love to be unit, and the right two wings were contradiction style and game style, which promoted the love to be separated. Devoting style and predestination style constructed the antennae, which determine the material and emotional investment on love. The every dimensionality of perfectionism had greatly prediction effect on the love attitude. Conclusion The close relationship did exist between perfectionism and love attitude.